Do I Need a Trust?
One of my pet peeves as an estate planning attorney is hearing the question:
“Do I need a trust?”
After more than forty years of practicing law, I have heard that question thousands of times. It usually arrives early in the conversation—sometimes before we have even talked about family, finances, goals, or worries. People ask it the way someone might ask whether they need snow tires or whether they need a new roof.
And my answer often surprises them.
No. Nobody “needs” a trust.
That may sound odd coming from someone who has drafted hundreds—probably thousands—of trusts over the course of a career.
But the truth is that, “Do I need a trust?” is simply the wrong question.
It is the wrong question because it frames estate planning as a minimum requirement—something you do only if you absolutely must. It suggests that the goal is to do as little as possible.
But estate planning is not about minimum requirements.
It is about taking care of the people you love.
The Problem With “Need”
When people ask whether they need a trust, they are usually looking for permission not to do one.
They are hoping the answer will be something like:
“No, you’re fine. You do not really need one.”
And sometimes that answer is technically true. If someone owns very little property, has simple assets, or lives in a state with streamlined probate procedures, a trust may not be essential.
But that does not mean it is not wise.
Think about the difference between what we need to do and what we choose to do.
You do not need to save for your child’s college education.
You do not need to show up for every one of their soccer games.
You do not need to spend an afternoon teaching a grandchild how to ride a bicycle.
But those things are often among the best things we ever do.
Estate planning works the same way.
A Lesson From My Early Legal Career
Early in my career, I handled a number of paternity cases. They were often difficult matters involving young men who had been named as the possible father of a child.
From a legal perspective, the objective in those cases was very clear.
The name of the game was to prove you were not the father.
That was the legal strategy. DNA tests, affidavits, evidence, timelines—everything revolved around answering one question:
Is he the father or not?
Sometimes the answer was no.
But sometimes the answer was yes.
What struck me most in those cases was the range of reactions that followed.
Some men accepted the responsibility and grew into the role of being fathers. Over time they became loving, engaged parents.
Others responded differently. For them the question became purely transactional:
“When is the last check I have to write?”
Technically, that question had a legal answer. Child support obligations eventually end.
But hearing that question always struck me as a terribly small way to think about something as profound as being a father.
Because fatherhood—like most of life’s important roles—is not about what you have to do.
It is about what you choose to do.
Parenting and Estate Planning
The parallel to estate planning is stronger than most people realize.
If a parent approached raising children the same way some people approach estate planning, the questions might sound like this:
Do I need to attend my daughter’s recital?
Do I need to help my son with his science project?
Do I need to save money for my children’s future?
Legally speaking, the answer to many of those questions might be “no.”
But emotionally, morally, and practically, we understand that doing those things is often part of being a good parent.
We do them not because we have to.
We do them because they are the best things to do.
The same principle applies when we think about trusts.
What a Trust Actually Does
A trust is not magic.
It does not create wealth out of thin air, and it does not solve every family problem. But it is one of the most flexible and thoughtful tools we have for protecting and managing assets.
Depending on how it is structured, a trust can help a family:
- Avoid probate
- Maintain privacy
- Provide management of assets if someone becomes incapacitated
- Protect a surviving spouse
- Protect children from creditors or divorce
- Provide for beneficiaries who are minors or who need assistance managing money
- Ensure that assets are used wisely over time
Notice something important.
None of those benefits are about necessity.
They are about stewardship.
The Estate Plan as a Love Letter
One of the ways I like to describe an estate plan is this:
An estate plan is a love letter to your family written in legal language.
It tells the story of what matters to you.
It answers questions your family will have someday:
Who should be in charge?
How should decisions be made?
What values matter to us?
How do we protect the people we care about?
Without a plan, those questions get answered by default rules—laws written by legislators who never met your family.
A trust allows you to write your own instructions instead.
Not because you must.
But because you care.
Why the Question Persists
So why do people keep asking whether they “need” a trust?
There are a few reasons.
First, fear of complexity. Trusts sound complicated, and the word itself carries a certain legal weight that can feel intimidating.
Second, concern about cost. People assume a trust must be expensive. Sometimes it costs more than a simple will, but in the broader context of protecting a lifetime of assets, the cost is usually modest.
Third, internet myths. The internet is filled with articles that frame the question in simplistic terms: only wealthy people need trusts, trusts are only for tax planning, or you do not need a trust if your estate is under a certain amount.
Those statements miss the point.
Trusts are not primarily about wealth.
They are about control, continuity, and care.
The Better Question
Instead of asking whether you need a trust, a better question might be:
“What is the best way to take care of my family?”
When you start with that question, the conversation changes.
Now we can talk about things like:
- Who should manage finances if you become ill
- How a surviving spouse will handle household finances
- Whether children are ready to inherit money outright
- How to protect family assets across generations
- How to simplify administration during a difficult time
Sometimes the best answer to those questions includes a trust.
Sometimes it does not.
But the decision is no longer driven by minimum requirements.
It is driven by family values.
The Gift of Thoughtfulness
The greatest gift an estate plan provides is not financial.
It is clarity.
When families face illness, disability, or death, emotions run high and decisions become difficult. A thoughtful estate plan removes uncertainty during those moments.
It says to your family:
- I have thought about this.
- I have made some decisions to make things easier for you.
- I care enough about you to prepare.
That kind of preparation is an act of generosity.
A Slightly Ironic Ending
So let us return to the original question.
Do you need a trust?
No.
Just as you do not need to read bedtime stories to your children.
You do not need to attend their graduations.
You do not need to help them buy their first home.
You do not need to spoil your grandchildren.
Life can technically proceed without any of those things.
But anyone who has lived long enough—and loved deeply enough—knows that the best parts of life are rarely about what we needed to do.
They are about the things we chose to do anyway.
So if you came here looking for the definitive legal answer to the question, “Do I need a trust?”
Here it is:
No.
You absolutely do not need one.
And yet, after forty years of helping families put their affairs in order, I have noticed something curious.
The people who ask the question usually end up creating one anyway.
Apparently, once we start thinking about the people we love… the answer has a way of taking care of itself.












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