What Needs to be Done When a Loved One Dies?

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What Needs to be Done When a Loved One Dies?

Once the initial shock has subsided, many tasks must be done when a loved one dies. Unfortunately, many of them are time sensitive and cannot be delayed. Most of these tasks fall to the surviving spouse unless a trustworthy and well-organized sibling or adult child can help. They include:

• Making funeral arrangements if they have not been done previously.
• Contacting family members and close friends.
• Securing the home or apartment.
• If there is a pet, find someone to care for them, even if it’s a short-term arrangement.
• I am locating the will and estate planning documents.
• Contacting Social Security, Medicare, Medicaid, and the Veterans Administration.
• Contact the U.S. Post Office to have mail forwarded.
• Obtain ten (10) original death certificates.
• If the decedent was working, notify their employer.
• Unless you had joint accounts or POD accounts, notify financial institutions.
• Notify the CPA, financial advisor, and any attorneys.
• Notify credit card companies and freeze the cards.
• Verify that property taxes have been paid and that homeowners insurance coverage is in place.

These are the more immediate tasks. In the weeks and months to come, there will be many more. In the early weeks, you will need to submit the decedent’s will to the court, known as probate, identify all assets and liabilities, pay utility bills and create a list of personal effects. Find the most recent tax returns to prepare the last tax return. Tax filings contain a wealth of information about assets, accounts, and property.

You’ll also need to notify the life insurance company. Find out how policy proceeds will be distributed and if any outstanding premiums can be returned.

The Department of Motor Vehicles needs to be notified to cancel the driver’s license, and you may want to inform the local Board of Elections.

It can take a year from when a person dies until their estate is settled. A complex estate can take several years, especially with no estate plan.

What If You Need Help?

Unless you have done this before, it’s hard to imagine how difficult it is. There are seemingly endless boxes of documents, and often directives for funeral planning and disposition of personal effects are buried in paperwork.

For some people going through a loved one’s documents offers a window into the details of the past and can be comforting. But for most, it’s a painful, long, and frustrating process. Today, this is further complicated by online accounts, which are harder to identify and often protected by passwords, two-factor identification, and facial recognition.

If you need help, ask a trusted family member or professionals who worked with the deceased.

What Can Be Done in Advance?

Just as estate planning is a kindness for loved ones, so is planning for the practical side of death. Whenever a person dies, information is lost. Taking sets to leave helpful hints and breadcrumbs for your survivors to use to figure things out can be very helpful during these difficult moments.

While it may not be admissible in court, a detailed description of the person’s wishes for their funeral, instructions for the care of their animal companions, and the location of important documents are a great help to surviving spouses and family members.

To you and yours, we extend our best Holiday wishes and hopes for a great 2023.

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Gifting to Minors with Custodial Accounts

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Gifting to Minors with Custodial Accounts

Legally speaking, a minor is a person under the “age of majority,” which defines the transition from childhood to adulthood. The age of majority depends upon the jurisdiction and application, but it commonly occurs at age 18 in most states.

While minors cannot legally own assets outright, you can transfer assets to your minor child or any minor children, regardless of whether they are related to you. However, you must adhere to specific rules to ensure these transfers are legal and tax efficient. There are several options for gifting to minors, depending on your situation and goals. This article will introduce one of these methods: the custodial account.

UGMA and UTMA

Have you heard of the Uniform Gifts to Minors Act (UGMA) or the Uniform Transfers to Minors Act (UTMA)? Parents often set up custodial accounts, as either UGMA or UTMA accounts, to make gifts to their minor children, usually for college education. These accounts are popular and are a simpler, less expensive alternative to creating and administering a formal trust for the minor child.

You are making an irrevocable gift to a minor child with either account, and the account is held under the child’s Social Security number. As a result, any taxes on the bill are reported on the child’s income tax return. These two accounts also have subtle but significant differences.

For example, UTMA accounts can hold a wider variety of assets for longer than UGMA accounts. Whereas UGMA account investment options are limited to traditional financial products, like savings accounts, certificates of deposit, stocks, and bonds, the UTMA account investment options are much broader, extending to nearly any manner of tangible or intangible asset. Limitations are typically in place to prevent the custodian from higher-risk investing, like buying securities on margin.

The accounts also differ regarding how long they can be withheld from the minor child’s direct control after attaining the majority age under state law. UGMA accounts become fully available at age 18, while UTMA accounts can be withheld until age 21. This delayed availability age under a UTMA account can prove invaluable, especially if the newly-minted young adult is financially immature. Consequently, funds held in a UTMA account are more likely to be used for college when controlled by a parent until the child is age 21.

Older age controls are available in other trusts, which an estate planning attorney can help you create.

How They Work

While underage, the beneficiary cannot serve as the custodian of a UGMA or UTMA account. Consequently, an adult or financial institution will act as the account’s custodian. The parent who contributes the funds into the account usually also serves as its custodian. Once the account is opened, any friend or family member can make deposits into the account for the child. At that point, assets in the account belong to the child beneficiary. If the beneficiary applies for federal financial aid for college, the account will be considered an asset of the beneficiary when determining student loan eligibility.

Tax-Free Gifting Rules

The law limits how much can be added to either of these accounts per year without triggering gift taxes. Under current law, the “annual gift exclusion” amount is $16,000 per donee (to increase to $17,000 on January 1, 2023). In other words, you and your spouse could each deposit $15,000 into your son’s UTMA account each year without triggering gift taxes. By not exceeding this $16,000 limit, no Form 709 Gift Tax filing is required. “Gifts” include all gifts made during the year, even birthday gifts. Your gifts to your son are not considered “income” reportable on his tax return, but they are not “deductible” on your tax return.

What if you want to gift more than the annual exclusion amount in a given year? What if you want to leverage a “down market” and transfer currently undervalued assets to take advantage of potential exponential appreciation later? In 2020, the maximum transfer you and your spouse may make to your son without triggering gift taxes is $23,190,000! You would need to file a Form 709 Gift Tax Return to report the value of your gift in 2022 when filing your personal income tax return. Giving more than $20 million to any newly minted adult may not be a wise move. Therefore, a custodial account may not be the best option if you are considering a substantial gift to a minor child.

Trust a Trust?

Therefore, what is an alternative to a custodial account when making a substantial gift (or series of gifts) to a minor child over the annual gift exclusion? As a famed jurist, Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr., famously quipped, “Put not your trust in money, but put your money in trust.” Consequently, consider creating an irrevocable trust with your minor child as the beneficiary. This approach provides many benefits not available with a UGMA or UTMA account. For example, a trust can be designed to protect the inheritance from and for your son.

An irrevocable trust can shield gifted assets from being squandered or lost to potential divorces, lawsuits, or bankruptcies. There are very few negatives to using an irrevocable trust when making substantial gifts to loved ones. Creating, funding, and administering an irrevocable trust is not a do-it-yourself project. Work with an experienced estate planning attorney when considering your gifting alternatives.

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Frightening Estate Planning Mistakes

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What are the Most Common Estate Planning Mistakes?

The most common estate planning mistake is failing to have a plan. Estate planning attorneys know people prefer not to address their own incapacity and death. They also know the problems that result when there is no plan. Having a properly prepared estate plan alleviates some of the financial and emotional stress for a surviving spouse and other family members.

Failing to Fund Trusts Undermines the Best Estate Plan

If you have a revocable living trust, then “funding” the trust is required to take assets out of your direct ownership and make your trust the owner. This is the process through which homes, vehicles, and any other assets owned through titles or deeds are formally transferred to your trust. A properly funded revocable living trust can help your estate avoid probate. Depending on your state of residence, this can expedite settling your estate, save unnecessary legal expenses and keep your private matters private.

Neglecting Incapacity Planning

Planning for incapacity due to illness or injury is as important as planning for the eventual administration of your estate at death. Without proper legal documents—advance health care directive, HIPAA authorization, healthcare proxy, living will, and general durable power of attorney —family members, including spouses, may not be able to access medical information or be part of your health care and financial decision-making process, without first going to court. At a time of family stress, this is no time to pile on any additional legal red tape.

Also, part of this planning is having a good backup for the depth of your planning. We want at least three possible successive decision-makers.

Creating an Estate Plan Without Professional Guidance

Expecting an online, DIY last will and testament to replace a comprehensive estate plan prepared by an experienced estate planning attorney is risky at best and disastrous at worst. Not surprisingly, each state has its own laws regarding the proper preparation and execution of a last will and testament. If your last will fails to comply with state law, it may be declared invalid. In that case, the only option for your surviving spouse or other family members will be to process the estate under the intestate succession law of your state. In other words, when your last will is declared invalid, state law decides who will inherit what and when from your estate. This is best avoided. The good news? You will not be around to see the mess you left. The bad news? Your loved ones will have to clean up your mess.

Remember that when the family needs legal advice the most, they will start searching for the right law firm to help without your assistance or input.

Leaving Original Beneficiaries on Non-Probate Assets

Every account with a designated beneficiary transfers on death to that beneficiary. However, failing to review and update those beneficiary designations may result in unwittingly disinherited loved ones. For example, take life insurance. It is not uncommon for an ex-spouse to

receive an unintended windfall when the policy owner dies. Fortunately, such outcomes can be easily avoided simply by updating the beneficiary designations on all assets for which beneficiaries have been designated. Review them regularly or whenever a major life event occurs, like a divorce or the death of a spouse.

Not Updating Estate Plans to Stay Current with Changes in Estate and Tax Law

Just as changes happen throughout our lives, estate and tax laws change also. In the coming year, major changes will occur in estate and tax laws. An estate plan created five to ten years ago may not provide the same financial protection or legal outcomes as one created last year. Changes coming in 2021 may require further updating.

Let Adult Children or a Trusted Friend Know Where Documents Can be Found

An estate plan is a gift to your loved ones—unless they cannot locate the documents in a timely fashion following your incapacity or death. Would those appointed to have an active role in your estate plan know where you keep your essential estate planning, financial, tax, and personal documents? Would they be able to access them? Do you want them to wade through file drawers and boxes of thirty, forty, and fifty-year-old paper records to find important information? While a safe is a great place to store original documents, it can defeat the purpose if the password is unknown or available. Similarly, a safe deposit box may require a court order to access the contents unless you include your spouse, adult children, or others on the signature card at the bank.

Leave a Legacy by Preparing for the Future

The loved ones you leave behind will recognize your effort to address your estate planning. It is part of caring for your family and the legacy you will leave with them.

Activities this Month

The Downs Law Firm will be sponsoring two events for Laurel Main Street for the Laurel Board of Trade:

 

First, we are hosting the Main Street Trivia Contest that the Laurel Main Street Festival on October 15, from 9 to 4.

 

After October 15, check our website, where you can test your knowledge with the quiz yourself.

 

 

 

 

Second, with the help of convicts and ghouls, we are handing out candy and fright for Main Street Trick or Treat on October 27 from 6 to 8.

 

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Special Planning Considerations for Alzheimer’s and Dementia

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Special Planning Considerations for Alzheimer’s and Dementia

If you receive an Alzheimer’s or dementia diagnosis, planning for the future must begin as soon as possible.

Preparing for incapacity must be done while you still have legal capacity: the ability to express your own wishes and understand the implications of documents that are created to enforce and protect them. Once you become incapacitated, you may not sign legal documents. In the absence of proper incapacity legal planning in advance, a court process will then be required to appoint financial and health care decision-makers for you. This process can be lengthy and expensive. It also will expose your private personal, health, and financial circumstances to the public record.

What Documents are Needed for a Person with Dementia?

Through a general durable power of attorney (POA), you can appoint a trusted individual as the agent (also known as the attorney-in-fact) to manage your financial and legal matters. While a POA can give limited powers, in cases of Alzheimer’s or dementia, broader powers should be given to the agent. Why? Your appointed will most likely need such authority to conduct all and any financial and legal matters on your behalf. A complete list of all assets, including bank accounts, pension, retirement plans, investment accounts, real property, and digital assets, should be created and provided to the agent appointed under your POA.

If you have executed a last will and testament, it should be reviewed and probably updated without delay. Make sure that it still reflects your wishes, especially regarding the executor you have appointed and the distributions you want to be made to your beneficiaries. If you have any minor children, you should also make sure that the guardians you have nominated are still willing to serve.

When one spouse has a diagnosis of oncoming cognitive impairment, some difficult decisions should be considered with an estate planning lawyer, such as shifting some assets to a Medicaid Asset Protection Trust, or transferring assets to children or the healthy spouse, with some trusts created in the healthy spouse’s will to protect some asset if the caretaking spouse dies and the disabled spouse’s needs to be cared for in a nursing home. If more than five years at home is likely, some proactive planning can greatly increase the options available for caring with greater flexibility. If a crisis is at hand, more drastic planning can preserve some assets for care once the state takes over payments.

This is now an instance where a trust created in a will can have significant advantages over the assets being held in a revocable trust, even if probate is required. Which planning options make sense depends greatly on how much time is anticipated before nursing care is required.

What Healthcare-Focused Documents Should Be Prepared?

While executing your POA, remember to execute a healthcare power of attorney as the agent. This document is also known as an advanced directive or health care proxy in some states. The individual who you appoint as the agent will be authorized to make your fundamental health care decisions if you are incapacitated. The same individual is sometimes appointed to serve as an agent for financial and health care decisions. However, this is not always the case. Each situation is different. You know the pool of candidates’ strengths (and weaknesses) for these important roles.

A living will, also known as an advance health care directive, documents your wishes regarding end-of-life care. It must address some hard questions concerning medical treatment: do you want your life extended through artificial means? Would you want to donate your brain or other organs for scientific research?

You should execute a HIPAA release form, so doctors and attorneys may speak with your financial and health care agents, family members, and caregivers as issues arise. In addition, those you authorize will also be able to access your medical records. This access is essential and is very practical for uses ranging from obtaining second opinions to pursuing potential malpractice claims. The HIPPA release form is also needed to interface with the health insurance provider. The right to speak with medical providers based on being a spouse or descendant should not be assumed.

Trusts are Commonly Used to Manage Assets for Incapacity Planning

You can create a fully-funded revocable living trust to address the management of your assets while you are living and to distribute your assets postmortem according to your instructions. As long as you have the capacity, you are in charge as the original trust and beneficiary. You can even make any changes you desire. Upon your incapacity, the trust becomes irrevocable and continues to provide for you. Your trust becomes irrevocable upon death since it carries out your distribution instructions. The successor trustee you appoint can be the same person appointed as the agent under your POA, the executor under your last will, and even your health care agent.

Planning for Final Arrangements

It is wise to discuss whether you want to be buried or cremated. You should also provide guidance regarding what, if any, kind of funeral service you would like and any other related arrangements. The more decisions you can make now, the fewer your loved ones will need to decide later on when grieving your loss.

Incapacity Planning for Alzheimer’s or Dementia

Planning for incapacity can be part of coming to terms with an Alzheimer’s or dementia diagnosis for you and your loved ones. Memorializing your wishes helps keep you in control of the process since your wishes are expressed and documented. You and your loved ones will be empowered to move forward with a plan in place.

The sooner you seek professional help, the better the planning choices that you will have.

Upcoming Webinar September 27 at 6:00 PM

We have a basic estate planning webinar on September 27 at 6:00 pm. Please join us if you want a refresher on your own planning, and want to introduce your family to what you have done. Also, if you want to give a friend a chance to find out about their options for planning, please pass this newsletter on.

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Estate Planning Hazards

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Estate Planning Hazards

Figuratively speaking, life is chock full of road hazards. If we know where they are, then we can avoid them. It is the unknown hazards that are the problem. Just like when traveling on an unfamiliar road, it is best to learn from the experiences of those who have been down that road before. For example, if that automobile in front of you swerves to miss a crater in the street, then you may want to do the same. So it is with your estate plan. We can learn a lot from the failures and near misses of others. In that spirit, consider two familiar sources of dangerous estate planning hazards: beneficiary designations and joint tenancy ownership.

Beneficiary Designations

Depending on the state in which you live, virtually any titled asset may pass directly upon death simply by adding a beneficiary designation. Likely, many of your assets will pass by a beneficiary designation, including life insurance, annuities, and retirement funds. In addition, the non-probate transfer laws of many states provide for “pay on death” or “transfer on death” designations that work in much the same manner. Consequently, you may even designate beneficiaries for bank accounts, CDs, stocks, and other assets. Some states provide for the transfer of real estate through a special transfer on death deed.

Arranging for transferring your assets at death by beneficiary designations is attractive for several reasons, including its simplicity and the fact that little to no attorney work is required. While all of this looks smooth on the surface, beneficiary designations can become severe hazards regarding your estate planning objectives.

Beneficiary Designation Hazards

For example, did you know that any assets designated to pass directly to your beneficiaries are not subject to the terms of your estate planning legal documents like your will or trust? Consequently, you may be disinheriting some of your heirs in whole or part. In addition, any asset protection or special needs planning you created in your will or trust may not take effect as intended. Keeping your beneficiary designations current is vital to the success of your estate plan. You cannot simply take a “set it and forget it” approach.

Joint Tenancy Ownership

If you own any assets jointly with others, then you are in good company. Joint tenancy is one of the most common forms of asset ownership. If you own a bank account, brokerage account, or perhaps real estate with one or more persons, then chances are pretty good that you and they may be joint tenants. The full legal expression for this form of ownership is joint tenants with rights of survivorship (JTWROS).

Although JTWROS is most often found on the title to assets owned by married couples in common law states, residents of community property states also should understand JTWROS given the mobile nature of our society. In some states, a particular form of joint ownership called tenancy by the entirety is available to assets held solely between spouses. There are unique “asset protection” aspects to tenancy by the entirety ownership that can be very beneficial.

When one or more persons hold title to an asset as joint tenants, each owns the asset. In most cases, if one joint tenant becomes incapacitated, then the other joint tenant may continue to fully control their JTWROS assets without interference because of their concurrent ownership rights. When one joint tenant dies, the remaining joint tenants continue to own the asset without the need for probate. Ultimately, the sole surviving joint tenant owns the entire investment. This “right of survivorship” is one of the attractive legal features of JTWROS.

Not surprisingly, many JTWROS relationships are between family members. It just seems like the natural thing to do and, especially between spouses in a long-term marriage, reflects their commitment’s financial partnership.

For this reason, many widows, widowers, and other single adults may add trusted family members or friends as JTWROS to their assets. Nevertheless, as with most things in life, there are hidden hazards regarding this form of asset ownership.

Joint Ownership Hazards

While it is true that JTWROS may avoid probate at death, this is true only if at least one living joint tenant is not also incapacitated. To ensure this, however, most people add non-spouses as joint tenants.

Whether it is children, siblings, or friends, resist the temptation! Once you add a joint tenant to a given asset, they also own the given asset just as you do. What you may have intended merely as a convenience has instead subjected the control, use, and enjoyment of such asset to the potential liabilities of each joint tenant. These liabilities may come in many forms through your joint tenant, including divorces, lawsuits, or creditors.

Your intentions for the eventual distribution of your assets may be frustrated due to JTWROS ownership. For example, your will or trust may not control assets held in JTWROS. Often, assets passing to a surviving spouse later end up in JTWROS with a new spouse. That new spouse (and stepchildren) ultimately may receive assets from the previous marriage instead of the children you intended to protect. Considering the disinheritance risks in every blended family situation would be best.

Easy May Not Be Better

As with any decisions affecting beneficiary designations and asset titling, consult with an experienced estate planning attorney. Otherwise, you may fall victim to some highly unpleasant legal hazards.

To Learn More

Upcoming Seminars

We are having basic estate planning seminars. If you want a refresher on your own planning, want to introduce your family to what you have done, or want to give a friend a chance to find out about their options for planning, please pass this on.

To find out more about the seminar, please click here.

     THESE SEMINARS ARE AT OUR OFFICE NEXT TO THE POST OFFICE ON MAIN STREET

Tuesday, August 16,                 1:00 PM-2:30 PM

Wednesday, September 14,    2:30 PM-4:00 PM

Seating is limited, so call at 301-776-7900, or go to the events tab on our website to reserve your seat

 Light refreshments will be served. We hope you can make it to one. 

We are also holding the program as a Webinar on September 27 at 6:00. Visit the website for details

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DIY Estate Planning Pitfalls

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DIY Estate Planning

Being economically prudent can be a virtue. There is certainly wisdom in having a budget and weighing the cost-benefit of every purchase before parting with your hard-earned cash. However, pinching pennies can backfire and cost you more in the long run. Sometimes, hiring a professional is the best choice.

Unless you are a certified electrician, wiring your house could send your dream home up in smoke as you stand powerless to fix your faulty work. Do-it-yourself estate planning presents a similar risk. Without a thorough understanding of state and federal laws governing taxes and asset transfers, you could endanger your estate and loved ones with the plan you created.

Estate planning mistakes are easier to make than you might think. Consider these eight basic DIY estate planning pitfalls.

• Not using available tax-effective transfer strategies.

Lifetime giving and estate planning provides means for transferring assets to loved ones. However, both of these can trigger taxes when done without the knowledge of current laws. The estate tax exemption threshold has seen significant changes throughout the years. Only estates with total assets exceeding $12.06 million for an individual and $24.12 million for a married couple are subject to federal estate taxes. Certain states also impose their state estate taxes and have their own rules regarding exemptions. Lifetime giving can serve the dual purpose of transferring assets while reducing your taxable estate. However, there is an annual limit on how much you can give a person without triggering a gift tax. At present, that amount is $16,000. Going over this amount when making lifetime gifts will reduce your federal estate exemption at death. Filling out the appropriate tax forms and acting under current tax law is vital to tax-efficient planning.

• Not reviewing and updating estate planning documents.

Creating a will and trust is the start of a good estate plan. An effective estate plan is designed to satisfy your current needs and the relevant laws. However, laws and family circumstances change over time. If your estate plan does not change with legal and family changes, then your estate plan could undermine your own goals. To avoid leaving a mess for your loved ones, review your estate plan every few years and make the appropriate changes.

•  Using a “one size fits all” plan.

You can find generic wills, trusts, and other estate planning documents online. These documents may seem like a fairly simple solution to creating an estate plan. Unfortunately, like deceptive clothing labels, “one size fits all” estate plans cannot meet the needs of every individual. If you have minor children or a shady son-in-law, you may need more advanced legal planning to protect the inheritance for and from your financially immature heirs. While a simple will may work for someone else, your family might require the probate avoidance privacy of a funded revocable living trust with inheritance protection. A penny of prevention is worth a pound of cure!

• Selecting the wrong executor or trustee.

The roles of executor and trustee carry considerable responsibility. We spend time on client meeting exploring the candidates. Not everyone is capable of filling these roles. The person you select should be someone who is mature, organized, and will likely outlive you. If the dead could execute estates or administer trusts, there would be no need for you to name someone other than yourself. An experienced estate planning attorney can help you evaluate your options.

• Not funding your trust.

A revocable living trust can be an effective estate planning tool. It allows you to distribute assets to your heirs while bypassing lengthy and public probate proceedings. A trust gives you greater control over the management of these assets and how thy are to be used to benefit your successors. However, the trust can only control and distribute assets when it has title to the assets. You will need to “fund” your trust. However, not all assets need to be titled to your trust. Certain assets transfer through their own beneficiary designations. In fact, placing certain assets in your trust could have negative consequences. There is more to “funding” a revocable living trust than any DIY estate planning website can properly advise.

• Overlooking witness qualification.

Estate plans are not legally binding simply because you typed out your wishes and printed them from your computer. For a court, bank, or hospital to accept your documents, the documents must be “legally” executed with all the required formalities. For example, the requirements for a valid last will and testament vary from state to state, especially regarding witnesses and notaries. If your DIY estate plan is not “technically” legal, then it is not legal. The good news? When the estate plan fails to work, you will not know it. You will be dead. The bad news? The loved ones you leave behind will be left with your estate mess to clean up. Is this how you want to be remembered?

•  Lack of Assistance when it is needed most

The quality of the estate plan you put in place is tested when it is needed: When you are incapable of helping tg guide and protect your loved ones. At death or disability, how well will your planning be implemented? What needs to be done at these stressful times is where the rubber meets that road.

These mistakes are easy to make if you do not work with an experienced estate planning attorney. Spending money to work with a professional in any field is a small price to pay for peace of mind.

Upcoming Seminars

We are having basic estate planning seminars. If you want a refresher on your own planning, want to introduce your family to what you have done, or want to give a friend a chance to find out about their options for planning, please pass this on.

To find out more about the seminar, please click here.

     THESE SEMINARS ARE AT OUR OFFICE NEXT TO THE POST OFFICE ON MAIN STREET

Tuesday, July 19                 10:00 AM-11:30 AM             

Thursday, July 21                10:00 AM-11:30 AM

Wednesday, August 3         2:30 PM-4:30 PM 

Tuesday, August 16              1:00 PM-2:30 PM

Seating is limited, so call at 301-776-7900, or go to the events tab on our website to reserve your seat

 Light refreshments will be served. We hope you can make it to one. 

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Happy Father’s Day

Happy Father’s Day

I lost my Father in October, suddenly and unexpectedly. John F. Downs Jr. was 91 but still had impressive energy, zest for life, and a strong desire to be with and care for his loved ones, especially his wife of 69 years, my mother, Dee. Sunday will be our first Father’s Day without him. I often see on Facebook frequent tributes for deceased mothers or fathers and am at a loss for what to say to acknowledge the loss and void involved. Now I understand a bit more of the ache of grief. It was a great blessing to our family to Dad for so long. It is a gift granted to me that a few of my friends or clients.

In the ordinary shuffle of the day-to-day busyness, I have a kaleidoscope of impressions and sensations just getting from morning to night and have taken precious little time to mourn and appreciate Dad for all he meant to me.

My seven siblings and I, as well as Mom, all deal with the impact of Dad being gone differently. I have had the duties of estate management and coordination of benefits. In working with many people serving as executors or trustees, Grieving can be delayed or buried altogether with the distractions afforded by having multiple tasks one needs to pay attention to manage the affairs of the person we have lost.

Happy Father’s Day, Dad. Thanks for the love, support, and encouragement you always have given me. I strive to do the same for my kids.

If you have lost your Dad, take some time Sunday to appreciate and regret a few things said and not over a lifetime.

I know some people have a biological father who never rose to be active in their lives. If that is your case, there may be another man, be it stepfather, uncle, or brother, who was effectively your Father.

If you still have your Father, take a moment to reach out and tell him one thing you appreciate that he did for you that he would have forgotten. It will make his day. He has made many of yours.

Here are some gratitude from our team to Fathers, both living and deceased:

Thank you for being my hero in every conceivable way! -Patty Perez

 

Thank you for teaching me to appreciate the beauty of nature.-  Sheree Tiller

 

Dad, thank you for letting me work with you in the summers during college, and for modeling St. Joseph the Worker for me.- Justin Wedgewood

 

For teaching me to “Dance.”- Jackie LeCompte

 

Thank you, Dad, for being a very kind and understanding man. One summer, he taught us kids geometry in our kitchen so we could

skip a whole class in high school. He was a good teacher!- Wendy Krehbiel

 

Thank you for your sense of humor, for passing on your faith, for teaching us important life skills, and for making fun a priority.- Daina Bowen

 

Dad, thank you for leading our family and honoring Mom in our daily life.- Stephen Wallace

 

Thank you, Dad, for always being willing to play ball with us after you got home from work.-  Tom Downs

 

 

Best wishes.

 

Summer Is Upon Us

A new season. Don’t they change now so quickly?

I know I’m old because I already long for the end of summer. Chalk it up to global warming, but heat doesn’t give me the thrill it once did. Have I become the old man next door who will keep the ball if it comes into my yard? Yep.

My sister Teresa has a retreat in West Virginia called “Three Otters.” It is a magical place to visit because, while only two and a half hours from Laurel, it lacks the internet. No cell phone signal. You can take the kids there and then will enjoy a game of cards after a day or so.

When my Father died in October, we held Dad’s Covid-safe celebration of life there. There is enough open space to entertain 60+ people with plenty of social distancing. It was fitting because it was a place my parents loved and supported enthusiastically.

When my mother-in-law died in March, I told my Grandson that we were going to a funeral for her. He said excitedly, “Are we going to Three Otters?”

What a significant, if short-lived, association of a funeral with the river and campfires. I wish it would always be so.

Upcoming Events

We will have seminars to educate people about Estate Planning in July and August. This is a good basic overview of the choice you have in putting your affairs in order, wherever you are in your life’s journey. Also, inviting someone to a seminar is a great way to nudge a loved one to get their own will or trust completed. After attending a seminar, it may well be their idea that doing so makes sense. If you are interested or know someone who might be, the scheduled seminars will be at our office, in our seminar room.

Tuesday, July 19 at 10:00 AM  or

Thursday, July 21, at 10:00 AM or

August 3, at 3:00 PM.

Seating is limited, so call for reservations. We will serve light refreshments.

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Sweetheart Wills

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Sweetheart Wills

Nothing says “I love you” quite like a last will and testament (will). And, if you get right down to it, nothing says it better than “sweetheart wills” between married spouses. Let’s look at this traditional estate planning tool, its uses, and at least one pitfall to avoid.

Provide for Your Spouse

Most married couples want to honor their wedding vows to care for one another, whether richer or poorer, until death they do part. Consequently, sweetheart wills are so named because they reflect this desire by designating the surviving spouse as the direct inheritor of everything owned separately or jointly. Commonly, both spouses have “mirror-image” provisions in their wills to ensure that virtually everything passes to the surviving spouse.

Make Specific Distributions

On the other hand, spouses may wish to provide distributions that are not outright to the surviving spouse but are intended to pass instead to other loved ones or charities. For example, your spouse may have little interest in the ceramic bullfrog collection your beloved Aunt Vivian left to you at her estate. Fortunately, you may specifically designate that cherished collection to your cousin Vinnie, who was also a favorite of Aunt Vivian.

Appoint Guardians for Minor Children

In some states, a will is the primary legal tool used to appoint guardians (backup parents) for orphaned minor children. Even if your state provides other means to make this critical appointment, this is good information to know if you move to such a state. When selecting a guardian, always choose a successor or two because the primary guardian you appoint may be unwilling or unable at the time of need. Also, select candidates who share your fundamental beliefs and values, not to mention who adore your minor children. Finally, speak with them and make sure they are willing to take on parenting your children before they are named in your will.

Disinherit Your Own Children

One of the biggest risks and unintended consequences of sweetheart wills is found in the context of blended families. If you have remarried after being widowed or divorced and have children from that prior marriage, then watch out! Without careful planning, you will disinherit your own children if you leave everything to your new spouse. You’ll need to make provisions to leave assets to your children. That can be done by naming them as beneficiaries on certain accounts. Work this out when you are creating your estate plan.

Send Your Estate to Probate

Many people mistakenly believe that a valid will avoids probate if they become incapacitated or die. Nothing could be further from the truth. A will cannot appoint anyone to handle your financial matters or make your medical decisions if you are legally incapacitated because a will only has legal authority upon your death and the subsequent delivery of your original will to the probate court within the timeframe required by statute.

Depending on your state of residence at the time of your death, some commonly cited drawbacks to probate are the time and red tape involved (after all, it requires the involvement of an attorney and a probate judge), the additional expenses, and the public nature of the process (anyone can get a copy of your will and the inventory of your assets). If these potential drawbacks are something you would prefer to avoid, then you may wish to consider alternatives to probate.

Summary

Before you make any legal moves regarding your estate, make sure you contact an experienced estate planning attorney to fully educate you on your options.

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Choosing and Preparing Guardians

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Choosing and Preparing Guardians

It may be the most dreaded thing for parents to contemplate. Who would raise their children if both parents died?

The most important piece of advice: if you do not have a last will nominating a guardian for your minor children, get it done immediately. The court will decide who will raise your children if you fail to make that decision in a will. Family members are not always selected, and the children find themselves in foster care if a custody battle between family members erupts.

Who is Best Suited to be Guardian?

A knee-jerk reaction is to name grandparents. However, do the math, and you may find that decision is usually not realistic. Will they be able to care for active young children or handle the many challenges of caring for adolescent children? We have three grandchildren who we love unconditionally. When they are teens, we will be in our late 70s. Having raised our teenage children, I know it is a time that demands significant attention and vigilance.

Good candidates are often siblings or close friends who are parents with shared values. I am from a family with eight children, and Margie is one of ten children. We had lots of potential candidates and, for years, stalled on signing wills because it was a topic that led to difficult conversations. We finally figured out that, although we could quickly agree on who would be guardian, we could easily agree on who not to name. That left with a narrower pool of choices and highlights the danger of not signing a will: if you fail to make a decision that is binding in your will, a person you would not select could easily end up as the choice.

It would be ideal to have the children remain in familiar surroundings. However, if this is impossible, then a loving home with adults who can provide stability and support is better than a second choice in your hometown. As children age, the geographic proximity also may cause you to reconsider your guardian choice. Children become less portable as they age: moving a child to a different area is much more difficult in high school than while in grade school.

Have a successor guardian and a third alternate successor nominated in your last will. Health or other circumstances could arise, preventing your first choice from being able to serve. If your first choice is unwilling or unable to perform, having a second and third choice avoids having the court decide.

The Guardian and the Trustee

A guardian provides custodial care. The trustee oversees the inheritance of your minor children. One person (or a couple) can serve in both roles in some cases. However, this is not always the case. Someone might be great with kids and bad with money. If you separate the functions, consider whether they can work together.

What are the Trustee Responsibilities?

A trustee needs to put the needs of beneficiaries above their own. Parents who own their homes and have one or more life insurance policies require a fiduciary who can manage several hundred thousand or even a million dollars for two or three decades, depending on the age of the children.

If you have more than one child, we design the trust to serve them as a pooled, or “Common Pot” trust, so their various needs can be met. Our three children are four years apart. By the time our youngest son started college, our older two had graduated. It would not be fair to divide the asset into thirds because he would have had to pay for college himself had we died then. Instead, with a common pot, all the funds are held until the youngest achieves what you want to define as adulthood.

When does a child get uncontrolled use of the inheritance? The older I get, the older I think it should be.

While children are legally permitted to inherit wealth when they come of age, few 18-year-olds are ready. Because many newly minted young adults do not have the financial experience and maturity to inherit in a single lump sum, trusts are often created to control the inheritance until they are old enough to manage a significant amount of money. Some parents choose to stagger the distribution of the distribution in fractional shares upon attaining certain ages. For example, they may have one-third distributed at age 25, then one-half at age 30, and the balance at age 35. In addition, trusts can also include “incentives” to encourage positive behaviors, like graduation from vocational training or college.

What Happens to the Family Home?

If the plan is to have guardians live in the family home with the minor children, the house could be held in trust for the benefit of the children. Will it be sold or kept in the family? Either way, a plan for maintaining the home and its eventual disposition can also be included in your last will.

How Can You Instruct the Guardian and the Trustee?

Your documents should address the unique circumstances of your children with the guidance and detail as deemed reasonable. In addition to a last will and trust, write a “letter of instruction” to the guardian to explain your minor children’s personalities, preferred foods, best friends, bedtime habits, etc. You can revise this letter from time to time, as appropriate.

Final Words

Most parents live long enough to see their children grow up and have children of their own. However, bad things do happen. Having an estate plan to prepare for the worst-case scenario does not make it more or less likely. However, it can help you protect everyone you love and everything you have.

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Family (Estate) Feuds

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Family (Estate) Feuds

It is a sad truth: when a last surviving parent is sick in the hospital or nursing home, the children often fight over control and end-of-life.

Decisions. When that parent dies, fighting can continue over the distribution of the family estate. Will your estate plan keep your children from feuding with each other after you are gone? Forbes estimates that $30 trillion will pass through inheritance during the next three decades, which could leave many families ripped apart by feuds. The problem is that many adults do not save enough for their retirement and expect to fund their retirement with their anticipated inheritance.

A legal challenge to your estate plan can delay the distribution of assets to the beneficiaries. The litigation can also drain the estate through court costs, experts, and legal fees. The case can drag on for years, with the average costing $10,000 to $50,000, or even more.

Every family is different. Something that could trigger a knock-down-drag-out battle in one family will not cause a blip on the radar screen for another. Here are some of the reasons why families fight over the estate when the last parent dies:

• Caretaker coercion. When one sibling takes care of an aging parent and then receives the house or a disproportionate share of the inheritance, the other siblings might cry foul and accuse the caretaker sibling of undue influence and coercion. While an adult who has the legal capacity to make a will or trust general has the right to dispose of her estate as she sees fit, this situation can lead to contests when the other children are not informed why the inheritance is not equal.
• • Disinheritance. When a person disinherits a natural heir, that heir has nothing to lose by challenging the estate plan. Some people include language in their will or trust that penalizes would-be beneficiaries for contesting the will or trust.
  • Sibling rivalry. Sometimes, siblings who never got along well try to settle old scores by squabbling over the deceased parent’s estate. The solution to this scenario will depend on the facts of the situation.
  • Advancements or Gifts. If the parent helped a struggling adult child with student loans, a house down-payment, or other big-ticket items while the parent was alive, that child’s siblings might feel cheated. Make it clear in the estate plan whether this assistance was an “advancement” on the future inheritance or a gift. The former is “repaid” out of the inheritance, and the latter is not.
  • Unequal financial status of heirs. Sometimes a parent leaves an asset, like a vacation home, to all the children equally. A wealthy beneficiary can afford to hold the investment until it is right to sell it. However, less affluent co-beneficiaries might want to sell the asset right away. The disparity in financial security can lead to disagreements among the siblings.
  • Co-trustees or administrators. A parent might try to play fair among adult children by making them co-trustees of the trust or are co-administrators of the estate. Unfortunately, this strategy can backfire if the siblings do not work well together.

  Last, do you tell the family of your plans, or not? They should know who is in charge of medical decisions. Some of our clients elect to have a family meeting and share their planning ahead of time. Whether to do so depends on your family dynamics. You do not need to provide detail and include dollar amounts, but a general idea of what assets are in the estate and who will get them can prevent unpleasant surprises.

  Contrast the feuding family with the next story of great selflessness and sacrifice:

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